This poem was shared to me and I was so touched by it, I had to share it further. I question at times why God allows us to suffer, feel pain, have hardships etc.....  I feel this answers those questions.  GOD Said NO I asked God to take away my habit. God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.  I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, No. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary. I asked God to grant me patience. God said, No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned. I asked God to give me happiness. God said, No.I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you. I asked God to spare me pain. God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. I asked God to make my spirit grow.  God said, No. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful. I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life.  God said, No. I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.  I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me. God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.